Its formal name is the Young Adult Track. In Betty Ford Center-speak it’s
referred to by its acronym, “YAT.”
Whatever it’s called, why does California’s licensed addiction hospital offer
specialized treatment for young men, ages 18 to 25?
According to Lead Counselor Patrick Smith, there are three reasons.
“First,” he says, “these young men inevitably are not your garden-variety
alcoholic or addict, if there is such a thing. They often come to us cross-addicted, to a
potent mix of drugs. Even after they’ve been here two or three weeks, some patients are
still not substance-free – and their sleep patterns are still disturbed two or three months
after entering treatment.”
Smith and his fellow counselors say the drugs of choice of their young charges
are, in rank order, seriously-addictive opiates like Vicodin and OxyContin, cocaine,
marijuana, alcohol, and so-called “benzos” (Valium, Xanax, Klonopin).
A second reason for specialized treatment, Smith says, is that many young male
patients’ parents are integrally involved in supporting them financially, in getting them
into treatment and in monitoring their progress on the journey to sobriety. “The family is
the patient,” he says. “That’s true across the board here at the Betty Ford Center, but it’s
especially true with these young men.”
Finally, Smith says, “Most of these young people have been using since they were
10 or 11 years old. To put it mildly, they have not had a normal childhood, or
upbringing. They are physically, mentally and emotionally impaired. They lack even the
most elementary living skills. They’ve been existing – and I use that word on purpose --
in a bubble of addiction for at least half their life. They have so much to learn, although
obviously priority number one is how to achieve and maintain life-long sobriety.”
What brought these young men to treatment at the Betty Ford Center?
“The
immediate answer to that question,” says counselor Craig MacLaughlin, “is that their
parents brought them! But while that’s true, the actual causative factor is usually a legal
crisis (like an arrest), a medical crisis (like an overdose), issues at school (like expulsion),
a family intervention – or a combination of those factors.”
MacLaughlin continues, “Our young-adult patients usually don’t make the
decision themselves to come here. They come because someone who loves them
recognizes they’re in a downward spiral which they may not survive – and that if they’re
going to survive, they need to leave alcohol and other drugs behind and learn how to live
a sober life among sober friends in a sober community.”
Is there a flashing red light to alert loved ones that “recreational” drug use by a
young family member has degenerated into a chronic addictive state requiring treatment? “Yes,” says Patrick Smith. “Sad to say, by the time many of our patients get here, they
are injecting their drug of choice. They’ve found that’s cheaper and delivers a more
potent high.
“My message to parents and other loved ones is that if you see evidence of
needles or needle marks, then the enabling phase is well and truly over. It’s time to get
proactive, and get help.”
Young Adult Track counselors say it would be a mistake to view their patients as
`losers,’ especially in an educational or professional sense. They describe a current
patient, 23 years old, a high-achieving second-year medical school student.
“Unfortunately,” Patrick Smith says, “in driving himself to excel at his studies,
the young man became addicted to amphetamines, and his life began collapsing around
him. His parents reached out to us on his behalf, for help. I have no doubt he will learn
how to live a sober life, he will go back to school, he will develop into an excellent
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How does the Young Adult Track actually work? For the first four to six weeks, the young men participate in the Inpatient Program,
as do virtually all Betty Ford Center patients. They live on campus, in McCallum Hall.
Their treatment team constantly evaluates their progress. When it’s recommended by the
team (which works closely with the person’s assigned counselor), they move off-campus
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to a designated home, where they live with fellow “YAT” residents. The house is staffed
24/7. All activities are closely monitored. When residents leave the house for meetings
and other activities, they always do so with a “YAT” buddy.
Johanna O’Flaherty, Vice President of Treatment Services at the Center, says the
issue of trust is central to the lives of many young male patients.
“Trust is a recurring theme here,” Dr. O’Flaherty says. “Thanks to their
addiction, trust between parent and child has inevitably disappeared, and it’s an
extraordinary challenge to reestablish that trust.
“From the parents’ perspective, it’s been impossible to have meaningful
communication with their son. The truth is, they haven’t been talking to their son.
They’ve been talking to an addict. Those are two separate beings.
“Many of our patients have been using since they were nine or 10 years old. The
parents don’t know who that person is. What they do know is, they can’t trust him.”
Dr. O’Flaherty says working on trust issues is central to the treatment process for
many young men, and to their recovery.
There are five levels of treatment for the patients, and the young men must
petition for “promotion” to higher levels, she says. “They want the freedom that comes
with trust,” she adds, “but they have to earn that trust, and that freedom.”
Because so many of the young men have been what counselor Patrick Smith
describes as “MIA – missing in action” for so many years, many life-coping skills that
may appear elementary to others, must be taught. “Things like doing laundry, cooking
food, keeping a bedroom neat, managing a checkbook – for most of us, that may all seem
pretty conventional stuff. But for many of these young men, it’s a whole new world.”
Another part of the “whole new world” is building communication skills.
“During their addiction, all that’s been important to most of them,” Smith says, “is their
so-called `friends,’ street culture, and when and how to score their next hit. They’ve had
no meaningful or intimate relationships – not with family members, not with anybody
else, either. They have to work consciously on learning personal communication skills
and forming new relationships and associations.”
Those communication skills also come into play as the young men develop longterm
educational and career plans.
Fitness is also important. “We recognize,” says counselor Craig MacLaughlin,
“that when so many of these young men arrive here, they’re in rough shape, physically as
well as mentally.” Thanks to the Betty Ford Center’s state-of-the-art fitness facilities,
men in the Young Adult Track have access to a wide variety of equipment that helps with
cardiovascular training and strength-building. There’s also swimming, hiking (on nearby
Mount San Jacinto) and mountain-biking. Kayaking expeditions are in the planning
stage.
One of the most heartening aspects of treatment for young male adults is that the
young men help each other.
“By the time someone has been here for three to six months, they’re acutely
aware of where they were, where they are, and where they’re going,” says Patrick Smith.
“To watch them reach out and befriend a new patient who’s just arrived in a state of
anxiety and fear -- that’s really pretty remarkable. That new person soon realizes that
there is help, there is hope. It’s a wonderful cycle of affirmation.”
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